How to handle naysayers

Criticism or anger or rage from anyone is not your problem. Anyone who gives a side remark or taunt, gives this for one simple reason: anyone who is incomplete from within thinks others to be incomplete.

Meet one fully functioning human being and they absolutely CANNOT say anything bad about or to another human being. They simply cannot afford to be harsh to another work-in-progress just like them.

Define people not by the work they do, not by their status, not by the version of their car, not by their salary and definitely not by the way they look.

Because you are not defining them in any way, you are simply defining yourself.

Go connect with other human beings and you will find the glory of life lies in making other people feel better. The path is non-linear and there is definitely no going from point A to B with a pre-destined roadmap – who needs it in the first place? We all need people who create solutions on their own and move forward by taking other people along.

That is generosity. That is becoming a scarce commodity. That is also becoming indispensable. You can find millions of naysayers and condemners all around. It is difficult to find an invincible bundle of glory, and more so, become one.

Be that and you will end up giving no damn about what other people think.


Author: Nishtha Gehija

Energetic, bold and novel self help author of "This Is What You Are Looking For"

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