Feeling to be appreciated and away from danger is the human force that kept us alive when we used to live in the jungles thousands of years ago.
Keeping the passion and feeling to serve alive and compounding it day requires courage and love for what you do.
Stop waiting for likes of other people, start appreciating people for the good in them, both online and offline. The likes that will follow you will well deserve.
You need to take yourself out of the feeling of feeling bad
There are infinite number of things we do not like. We probably do not like the people surrounding our lives. Maybe it is your job. Your health. Your relationship with yourself.
Do something about it today, please. Do get out of what chains have been holding you back so that the world sees what freedom in real sense means. So that you inspire all of us to blossom and create joy.
In so doing, let us always remember one thing: the world that you adore is not going to happen overnight. So didn’t this world that you are now living in. 10 years will pass anyway. Are you going to have fun in your life from today or are you going to let circumstances define your happiness? There are going to be daily doses of gloom from the current circumstances. There lies the choice, to let bogged down or to create and invent your new and weird and self-acceptable way of living?
We all need you to be you. As simple and easy it sounds, most of us have lost ourselves trying to mirror what other people around us are doing or expecting us to do.
We all need people who are authentic. Even if people do not understand you, as they are not going to; you still have to be true to yourself. And as you start living from that point of authenticity to be the real you, the world will also gradually start navigating from the point of ridicule to acceptance and reverence.
Our life is reflected in our choices: either operate from living someone else’s life and feel hollow within, or be authentic and fill yourself up so that you provide a space to all of us to blossom.
Your standards are the ones which you need to keep on examining. Consistently.
Are you staying true to yourself or are you letting someone else play the chess on your behalf?
Too often, it happens donned under feelings of love, regard, fear of rejection and fear of criticism. At the end of the day, we are answerable to ourselves: did we do the right thing that makes the world more elevated and makes our family and loved ones happier, or are we simply losing ourselves in pursuit of a standard and a false acceptance that will go away soon?
Most people on the planet think that both have to go hand in hand in order to live a successful life. Here is the clichè: when we experience suffering on a consistent basis, we are subconsciously telling ourselves that our happiness is so cheap, that it can falter at the ups and downs that circumstances expose to us.
Do you want your happiness to be so vulnerable? Definitely not.
So here is the truth: every single feeling of suffering emanates from the seed of thought my own fear or lack or loss. If I take control over my emotions and let go of them by counselling myself constantly, just like we do it to others, our emotion of lack dissipates superquickly.
Remember, our sole and soul purpose on the planet is to make the world better by serving them. Once we get into this groove as our habit, suffering is not optional, it is non-existent.
Feeling joyful in easy and joyful times is normal. We all must reach that state wherein in the face of every difficulty, we have that level of stability of mind that we are able to go through those situations in an easy manner.
Why do we have to do that? Why can we not go through pain and then come out of it gradually? In reality, we all do go through difficult and trying times. What makes the difference in a stable mind versus a vulnerable mind is how long they stay there. How big or small a situation is, we must take the learning out of it in such a manner that makes us a better human being, and let that situation go away. Yes, memories will come at a later date to bog you down, you just need to remember that you are the driver of your emotions and therefore, experiences, basis your perception and thoughts. No one else is. You are the driver. No one else is. Just remember this.
People act as per what feels right to them in the moment. You have to make the choice to let go of the things that are not serving you, so that your temple of richness, which is your mind, is filled only with fruits and never weeds.
In this journey of life, we all have our own transformation. We can never reach the end of our learning until we reach our death. In so doing, where many people on the planet are craving for joy, you be the embodiment of peace and joy that we all need. Because if you are fortunate enough to read this, you can feel joyful. No matter what.