Where to start?

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Whenever we feel that there is a long distance to go or we do not feel that there is a getting out of the loop of not feeling great, the best place to start is within.

All we see in the external world is a reflection of our self image. Once we work on our inner self, we become the master. Master not in the sense of ego, rather master of our senses. Now is your mind guiding the matter. This is where all triumphs begin.

The best part is, the more you get to know yourself, the more parts of yourself begin to open up. Your life becomes magical because you are becoming more self-aware. As self awareness is the key to any achievement, consciously carving out the time to be self-aware, to know yourself, to alter your self-image in alignment with your vision become the starting point of all achievement.

So where to start: is with yourself. Every endeavour of life requires us to begin within. Every mountaintop is a reminder that there are no limits for achievement in the outer world for the human beings who achieve mastery over their inner world. Make yourself at par with your vision internally and life will be more than happy to offer you it’s beautiful jewels.

I also did a video on self-image on YouTube, which you may check out here: https://youtu.be/6Ilik9ZEJh8

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

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Remember to remember

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What is the ultimate purpose of all the power, status and pride in the world if you do not have the people who love you the most?
In the world of material possessions and race to the top, success without fulfilment is a hollow victory. Like your muscles, the beautiful muscle of our relationships grows with the more we exercise them. Steve Jobs decided to go meet a girl instead of going to “an important meeting.” The girl eventually became his wife.
We all need our loved ones to enjoy the wins we are getting in our lives. That is what true success means.

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

Getting into the game

Our lives are measured by the happiness we spread. The happiness we spread is measured by our own happiness. Our own happiness comes from making a difference in the beautiful world we all are part of. The difference we make comes from being committed, which is more than just being interested.

Getting to the top of any game requires starting it. Then performing it better than anyone else on the planet. It takes patience, which is the way legends are created. It takes saying no to notifications and performing your art religiously. It takes believing in yourself, even when others have forgotten that.

imageIt takes starting your product or service, that if got into the game, unstoppably, will make all of us proud. It all begins with the groundwork. It all begins with starting.

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

Lessons from Nike

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Hey People!!
Recently had the fantastic opportunity to read Shoe Dog, the memoir of Phil Knight, the creator of the popular brand Nike. The exquisite reading stirred within me lots of provocative ideas to think and act upon, and it would be super pleasure to share out the same with you.

So here we go:

  1.  Happiness comes from pursuing a calling: a calling to make the world better through the products or services we have created. This calling has different terminology for everyone. Find yours, and be relentless, till the time we are alive.
  2. Difficulties are Nature’s/God’s/Universe’s ways of telling you are doing something exemplarily great. So embrace and acknowledge the difficulty, listen to your heart, and doing this will give you the most beautiful lessons of life. The only people without problems are the dead ones.
  3. Heart to heart conversations are the keys to flourishing relationships. The memoir presents beautiful pictures wherein great or lack of communication changed the whole game for the author.
  4. Make time to rest. You will get your best ideas when your mind is out with nature and enjoying simple pleasures of life.
  5. Speak your truth. Be honest and ethical, no matter what. And also learn to stand for what is right, even when the entire world is okay with the wrong.
  6. Lastly, give yourself a goal something bigger than yourself, along with taking great care of yourself. Because your mission, bigger than yourself, both at workplace and in the family, will be fulfilled only when you are present to change the world.

I am sure these insights helped you out in creating a better world. Do go out and read this phenomenal book, and also share this blog post with a friend who you know will be elevated by this.

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

They don’t talk, and need it the most

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Life is relationships. Our awesomeness is defined by the quality of people we hang around with.
If we gossip with five people at the water cooler or the if we allow five energy draining people in our lives, quicker than we think, we are going to be the sixth one. If we hang out with five people who focused on creating revolution through their products, or five people who are driving the world insane “overnight”, undoubtedly we will emerge as the sixth industry disrupted.
Would go a little deep here. Because most of us have 10,000 digital friends and have lost the importance of having 1 real friend with us. We are loving and liking and wowing people who do not know who we are, and are simply dismissing the physical human beings, more special than anyone else, to believe that they will stay forever.
There has been no better time that we focus on what our true priorities are, and accept our close relationships as precious ones, because they are. What would our lives be like if we didn’t have the five closest people to us? And we do have lost few close relationships because of the lack of communication on either parts. Think over it.
Because what we perform out in the world is a direct reflection of our emotional life, which is shaped by the people adorning our lives.

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

How to have energy for life

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Hi people!
On this journey of personal mastery and personal freedom, we all must feel highly energetic and be filled with awe for the vitality we radiate.

However, you sometimes feel out of enthusiasm and vitality inspite of eating healthy and working out diligently.

If that is happening to you, or if you still want to experience more energy and vitality in your life, the key is: You become the reflection of people you spend your time with.

Your lack of energy can be attributed to this and only this one thing. Let go of the people who are draining your energy, who are dragging you into conversations that they do not want to understand. Tell them politely that it is over, and if they do not get that, figure out another way to help yourself and them.

The forces of the past are going to pull you to be like them again, and being focused on your light and energetic future holds the key to lifelong happiness and high electric energy.

And whenever in future you feel your energy lacking, remember to remember who your influences are, they may be causing you your vitality and happiness.

In the end, I would like to leave you with this quote from my hero Robin Sharma: “The more you care about what others think of you, the less amazing your life is going to be. Be an original.”

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.

Thank you

Awesomeness,

Nishtha Gehija

What is awesomeness?

Awesomeness means recognizing yourself and then living by it. There is always a difference between the top 5 % and the remaining 95 % of the crowd. The ones who have scaled to the top are the ones who know that the top is the destination for them.

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There is no end or topmost peak to be scaled. That is the best part. Once The Top Performer reaches her designed peak, she takes a break, and is in and on to design the new peak and starts scaling it. He does not know the meaning of retirement and making the world better and amazingly awesome is the only game the legendary people play.

All the legendary people are so because they were also dissatisfied with the discomforts that the world faced. However, unlike the rest of the world, instead of choosing to crib and complain, they used the demeaning situations to their favor, and ended up making a history with their deeds and creations.

Let us have a deeper look at this. We have an inner feeling of unrest when the world needs to get better, or the things that we complain about need to get better. Recognize that inner feeling, and make it a vibrant and flying feeling by doing something to change the things. We all have the power to make lasting change happen. Question is: how much are we focused on creating change and how much are we focused on notifications on our social media feed?

Our focus will determine our locus. And ultimately our awesomeness.  Create your definition, Now, before skipping over to the next social media post.

If you have not yet read my book “This is What You Are Looking For” grab your copy at Amazon and also leave a review. Also, share in the comments below about the action steps arising out of today’s blog post. Together we will change the world: one game changing move at a time, by every single one of us.